85 Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend

85 Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend

Have you been in a moment when the conversation with your date suddenly comes to an awkward halt? Well, once, while I was dating someone, it became a major problem when we felt bored of each other as well as the relationship after a point in time. 

It so happened that we were running out of things we could discuss to connect better. Without the spark, our relationship gradually became monotonous when we found it difficult to keep the conversation going. 

If you are facing a similar issue, it’s time to spice up your relationship with your girlfriend and ask her stuff that will allow her to communicate how she feels about certain things.

Now, the concern is how to bring up challenging or sensitive topics with your girlfriend, right? To help you ignite your romance, here’s a bunch of questions to ask your girlfriend that can make your conversation more lively.


Deep Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend

85 Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend

Falling in love goes hand in hand with falling for someone’s real self, apart from other things you may have on your checklist. 

There’s no alternative to getting to understand your girlfriend better than asking her some thoughtful questions. So, check out these 10 questions to have a never-ending conversation with her.

  1. What is one thing you will never trade for a relationship?
  2. Do you believe all is fair in love?
  3. What is your favorite childhood memory you have never shared before?
  4. Is there any favorite holiday destination you would want to visit with me?
  5. If you’re given an option to pick one, would you choose money or time?
  6. What is the kindest thing you have ever done for someone?
  7. What’s a piece of advice you have gotten that you would never forget?
  8. Who do you think has a great influence on your life?
  9. What is your favorite attribute about your family?
  10. Which three words would you choose to describe yourself?

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Juicy Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend

Besides understanding and communication, you should also foster intriguing conversations with your girlfriend. 

Do you want to have a sneak peek into your girlfriend’s mind? If yes, here are 15 juicy questions to explore the untapped romance with your girlfriend.

  1. Are you completely satisfied with the kind of intimacy we have in our relationship?
  2. Have you ever found any of my friends attractive?
  3. Are you still in touch with any of your previous partners?
  4. Did you ever hide something important from me?
  5. Would you be willing to try a new activity in bed tonight?
  6. Was there any moment when you felt you wanted to break up with me?
  7. Would you be fine if I invited an ex-girlfriend to my birthday?
  8. Have you tried one-night stands?
  9. What is one fantasy you want to try in the bedroom?
  10. Have you ever had threesomes?
  11. Did you ever feel jealous of any of my female friends?
  12. Do you like me being dominant or submissive in bed?
  13. Rate our chemistry on a scale of 1-10.
  14. Are you into PDA, or does it gross you out?
  15. Have you ever had a sex dream where you pictured someone else with you?

Romantic Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend

85 Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend

Love isn’t hard if you know how to rekindle the romance time and again. 

Besides intimate moments, there’s more to life as well as your love. Notably, not every girl loves red roses or romantic gestures. So, let’s look at some romantic questions you can ask your partner to understand what attracts her the most.

  1. Do you have any special ideas for a date this Valentine’s Day?
  2. Are you in the mood for a romantic getaway this weekend?
  3. According to you, what’s the best romantic moment we’ve ever had?
  4. What’s one thing I do that makes you feel loved the most?
  5. Define our love in one word.
  6. Do you find public proposals romantic?
  7. How can I make you feel more loved and precious?
  8. Would you love a simple, cozy date or something grand on our relationship anniversary?
  9. Do you find my love language perfect, or is there anything I can work on?

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Fun Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend

Posing one or two random questions to make your gf laugh is perhaps the best thing you can do when she’s had a tough day. 

Are you two craving some goofy, light-hearted conversation? These five questions will help you add some humor to your lives. 

  1. You only get 3 words to describe me- what are they?
  2. What’s your worst date experience?
  3. How did you find out you are in love with me?
  4. Which is your favorite movie quote and why?
  5. If I gave you half of my monthly salary and asked you to purchase something for me, what would you buy?

Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend About Love

85 Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend

Building a long-lasting connection will not be possible if you two have contrasting views about love. The trick is to ensure a safe space for your girlfriend so that her sentiments are not hurt.

For starters, these 6 questions will work wonders to enjoy a meaningful chat: 

  1. How is our relationship different from others?
  2. What’s the first thing that makes you love someone?
  3. List the 3 best qualities you want your partner to have.
  4. Do you think finding love after marriage is possible?
  5. Love is blind- what’s your opinion?
  6. Do you believe in a forever kind of love?

Also Read: How Long Can a Woman Stay Without a Man?

Serious Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend

One of my pals, Rohit, had been in a serious relationship since his school days and recently he had decided to tie the knot with the love of his life. It was then he came to know that his partner was completely against the idea of staying with his family once they got married. 

Poor Rohit had no other option but to quit with a broken heart after five years of being in love with his Senorita!

I’m sure we have all faced a moment of realization that the person we madly love is not ‘The One’ for us. It could be a difference in values or even simple lifestyle choices that may lead to breakups. 

What’s worse? Staying in a relationship for 6-7 years without getting to clarify deal-breaker stuff! Try asking questions that will help you discover more about your girlfriend. Below are 6 examples of questions to ask your gf before it’s too late:

  1. Is there anything that triggers you in our relationship?
  2. Let’s talk about one thing you feel is off in our relationship.
  3. Would you envision us getting hitched five years down the line?
  4. Do you think we should spend more quality time?
  5. Would you like our parents to get involved in our relationship any time soon?
  6. What are your views on having kids in a marriage?
  7. Is there anything you have been meaning to talk to me about for a long time?

Cute Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend

Be it a new or an old relationship, ensure that you retain some cuteness always! If you are wondering how to do so, you can take hints from these cute questions:

  1. Love letters or surprise romantic dates- which one do you prefer?
  2. When did you realize you were in love with me?
  3. What do you think is the most attractive physical feature I have?
  4. How much do you miss me when I am away on tours?
  5. Do I resemble your favorite TV show hero anyhow?

Flirty Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend


Who doesn’t love flirting? I’m sure your girlfriend will also enjoy some flirty banter. 

Here’s how you can ask her some cute, flirty questions to ensure that the charm does not fade away:

  1. Does your favorite love song remind you of me?
  2. Pick a color you would love to see me in tomorrow.
  3. Do you think about me when you’re at work? 
  4. Will you mind if I order your favorite momos today?
  5. What is your favorite type of intimacy?
  6. Would you love to go on a drive now?

Dirty Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend


Being subtle while striking a dirty conversation is an art not many can master. 

Not everyone feels comfortable discussing personal questions, especially if they’re out of the blue. 

Need some suggestions to navigate your partner’s sexual fantasies? Here you go- from dirty to flirty, this list covers all that you have ever wanted to know about your girlfriend.

  1. Would you want to make a sex tape with me?
  2. Share your weirdest fetish with me, please?
  3. Ideally, how frequently should we have sex?
  4. Are you willing to go skinny dipping with me this Sunday?
  5. How long would you want me to last in bed?
  6. Any captivating erotica you would want to recommend to me?
  7. Which is your least favorite sexual position?
  8. Till date, where did you have the messiest sex?
  9. Would you want to do some dirty talking tonight?
  10. Tell me a place you love to be touched the most.

Also Read: Signs That a Woman Has Not Been Sexually Active: Myths, Realities, and Implications

Hypothetical Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend

Last but not least, let’s look at some questions you may want to ask your girlfriend to kill boredom.

  1. If you had to reveal a secret about your family, what would it be?
  2. Would you go back to your ex if we parted ways?
  3. Suppose you could change one thing about our first date; what would it be?
  4. Would you ever snoop on my phone if you get suspicious about my activities?
  5. Would you prefer having kids or pets?
  6. How do you feel about the idea of a long-distance relationship in the next couple of years?
  7. Would you ever quit smoking if I asked you to?
  8. If asked to choose, would you prefer getting a dog or a cat?
  9. How would you react if you found me hanging out with one of my previous girlfriends without your knowledge?
  10. How would you like our dream house to look like?
  11. If you could choose a fictional character to roleplay, what would it be?
  12. Do you want to have a strict or liberal approach towards our kids in the future?

Final Words

Now that you know which questions to ask your girlfriend, strike up a lovely conversation right away! But remember not to be judgemental or inquisitive about sensitive topics. 

Take her out on a cute date, compliment her outfit, be kind and caring, and be sensible enough to understand if your girl is in the mood for flirty questions or serious talk. After all, you would not like it if your girlfriend gets pissed off or hurt, right?


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